Get this, I know it's been a while since I was on this site, but ever since my husband found out that I was on here and actually taking serious steps toward divorce, talking about it, writing about it, seeking advice, thinking about it...etc. Suddenly, he stopped drinking! And unbelievably, he says it doesn't have anything to do with me doing this. He says he wants me to have a husband with class who I can be proud of, and not feel like I am married to a teenager who wants to catch a buzz. I was shocked. That's really great, but it still doesn't hide the fact that he couldnt be truly honest about that it was because I was seriously threatening divorce that made him stop. I don't understand why he won't admit to that. But things are much better. I still worry about him falling back in, but I have a feeling he won't. But all that time he spent getting drunk, buzzed and whatever and all our fights over it, it kind of killed some feelings for me, and made me think about old flames...but now, maybe as time goes on, I will have a new flame for my husband.