My Story ::  LostHusband

How Did You Meet?

We met online with Yahoo personals. She contacted me after I put a personal ad on the site.

Describe your marriage before the problem.

Before the problem we alway fought verbally, but we had fun and loved each other. Sex was great till my daughter was born then it disipated from there.

Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.

I relized I made a mistake 2 months after marriage but I was not sure what to do, and was brought up that divorce was wrong no matter what. It was not acceptible by god.

What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?

I havent done anything about it yet because I have been engaged 2 times previously with kids from those relationships. When we split in those I lost my kids for what has been there whole lives so far. My marriage we have a daughter and she has a son. Me and my step son are really close and my daughter is my life. To lose her would kill me and hurt her so bad. We have had times where we seperated and it affected my daughter bad. She always thinks my wife is not coming back when she leaves. She tells everyone how mean my wife is to her daddy and she is only 4. I love my wife but I am tired of all the abuse verbally and physically. I believe god has more instore for my life than all this pain.

If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?

Losing my daughter for good.

If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?

Recognize a mistake when you make one. Dont be afraid to admit your wrong. Its never to late to make changes to yourself to better a relationship.

If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?

If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?