Im getting divorced again?
How Did You Meet?
I met the father of my children, and my second husband, the night I left my first husband. No, it wasnt planned but I went out dancing with friends and he asked me to dance. We hit it off and were married almost 2 years later.
Describe your marriage before the problem.
It was great. We got along wonderfully and had all of the same interests. I would have never married him had I not thought it wasnt going to be until death do us part.
Tell us how you first realized you had a problem.
Our sex life went down hill. We went from having sex all the time to not so often. We also started to argue alot. I didnt find out until a year after the fact that he was having an affair. I found out from the woman he cheated on me with because he cheated on her too and she felt the need to come clean.
What did you do about it or if you have not done anything yet, why?
I found an apartment and moved out. I didnt know about the affair, I just knew I wasnt happy so I left.
If you're not yet divorced, what is your greatest fear?
If you're not yet divorced, what two tips would you share with others?
If your divorce is final, what was the hardest part of the divorce?
Making the first move to leave and the fact that he didnt stop me.
If your divorce is final, what two tips would you share with others?
Dont try to control other people, and if you're not happy, do something about it.