Value is not income, taxes depends on what is agreed to in the divorce settlement - and no alimony? HA! You will be entitled to it if he likes it or not, so I suggest you ask for it.
You really want to spend the next 5 years miserable? Don't you think your kids realize you two aren't "right"?
You do realize that parents who "wait" for their kids to get out of school actually cause more harm than good because they are left to their own devices to try to cope, instead of getting the help they need through counseling the parents provide? Not to mention parents who split and have semi-grown children, tend to put them in the middle and expect them to "choose a side" - what you are doing is not healthy...
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